Thanks for the line guys! This is gonna be a two part blog series that I hope will emphasize the obvious and not-so obvious (we will say hidden) qualities I have observed over and over again in good small group leaders at the Summit.  The list below is a snapshot of some obvious yet essential qualities in good small group leaders.  The list is by no means exhaustive, but these four character traits are certainly necessary for every group leader.

Christ-likeness – All church leaders ought to exude a lifestyle that models the character of Jesus.  Out of Christ-like character flows all good and necessary character qualities for good leadership in the church.  Christ-likeness does not require perfection, but does imply the person conducts his or her life in a way that honors the Lord.  It means we are motivated by grace to live according to the commands of Scripture, even when it is difficult.  Christ-like people are dependent on God in all that he or she does.

Able to lead – Small group leaders are technically not “pastors,” but some pastoral qualities are still necessary for small group leaders.  Small Group members should find it easy and natural to follow their leader.  This does not mean a leader has to be an extraverted, life of the party kind of person.  It means that a leader has courage to assume leadership roles with gentleness and compassion for the small group members.

Loves to see people grow in Christ – The goal of a great small group leader is NOT to have great discussions or even to have great small group meetings.  The goal of a good small group leader is to move toward biblical community and foster discipleship among the small group members.  Discipleship does not just happen.  A good small group leader will actively emphasize and create an atmosphere for life on life discipleship.

Willingness to share leadership opportunities – Contrary to popular belief, a great leader is not defined by how well he can juggle everything that needs to be accomplished in a small group setting.  Great leaders are gauged by how well they lead and equip those around him them.  Each small group member should find a way to participate somehow, and good small group leaders will find ways to get everyone involved in the ownership of the group.

We wanted to update you on the status of Chris Gayor, our worship pastor.  In case you didn't hear, Chris was in a car accident this afternoon while transporting a truck full of boxes to Eastway for the worship choir outreach tonight.

He is doing well with no major injuries or broken bones.  The doctors are keeping him overnight for observation, though everything appears to be fine.  Please continue to pray for Chris and Michelle! 

We asked Summit Connections pastor Danny Franks to teach us why and how the Summit goes to great lengths to create a welcoming atmosphere for its guests. you can find more from Danny at his blog and you can follow him on twitter @letmebefranks.

In the last post, we talked about the biblical command towards hospitality. Today, we’ll tackle the fact that many churches thumb their collective noses at that mandate.

I’ve spoken at, trained with, and consulted for thousands…um, hundreds…okay, dozens of churches that want to up their guest services game.  One of the most common push backs I receive from church members and staff is, “But we’re already a friendly church!”

And I would totally agree with that.  But there is a difference between friendly and intentional.  On Sunday mornings, I’m one of the friendliest people at the Summit…to my friends.  But to not-yet-friends, I have to be intentional.  I have to break out of my shell, muster up some courage, and walk up and say hello.  That’s intentional.

When God instructed the Israelites to show hospitality to outsiders, they had to formally step into the process.  When Paul encouraged New Testament believers to show hospitality, it was most often in a context that included strangers, not friends.  In the same way, I believe that first impressions in a modern day church doesn’t just happen…we have to plan for it.

Here are a few key principles that we abide by here at the Summit:

1. Why, not what.  I want our people to understand the reason behind why we welcome guests, not necessarily the 17-step process to make a guest feel welcome.  If you can figure out the why, the what usually comes naturally.
2. Think like a guest.  Just as the Israelites knew what it was like to be strangers in a foreign land, so must we view the weekend experience through a fresh set of eyes…the same way our guests do.
3. Strive for excellence. While we believe in the “good enough” principle, we try not to skimp when it comes to our first timers.  We honor them by treating them well.
4. Go the extra mile.  This includes literally walking with a guest to get them to a location (not simply pointing them there), making sure their questions are fully answered, connecting them to the most helpful resources, even inviting them out for coffee or lunch.
5. Small, measurable next steps. We have to remember that when a guest checks out our church, it’s like a first date.  You don’t name your kids on a first date.  From the very first Sunday, we treat guests to a series of hand-offs so there’s no confusion as to what’s coming next, and no frustration that we’re smothering them.

Over the years, we’ve massaged these principles and changed a tremendous number of methods we use to make guests feel at home.  The bottom line is that we remember that hospitality is not optional, it’s commanded.  The way we love our guests can have a real effect on the way they respond to the gospel.

We asked Summit Connections pastor Danny Franks to teach us why and how the Summit goes to great lengths to create a welcoming atmosphere for its guests. You can find more from Danny at his blog and you can follow him on twitter @letmebefranks.

Random blog reader: “Hey! New author! I wonder if he always makes up words in order to make his titles rhyme?”

New author: “Don’t judge me.  You’re the one sitting in front of your computer talking to yourself.”

Equip General Editor Spence Shelton has asked me to write about the theology of First Impressions, which I appreciate because it makes it appear that what I do is almost legitimate.  If you’re in the ministry and can’t come up with a theology of why you do something, then you should get out of the ministry.  Or at least write a theologically soft, major best-selling book with promotional tie-ins such as accompanying devotionals, journals, and wall art.

Oh, and salt and pepper shakers if you can swing it.

Here at the Summit, we believe strongly in the power of the first impression.  Our goal is not just to have a bunch of new visitors on the weekend, but to welcome guests into our family.  In this post, I’ll explain how guestology theology is a biblical concept, and in the next post we’ll toss some flesh on this skeleton so you can see how it works on a practical level.

First, the Old Testament.  God commands the wandering Israelites to practice hospitality with strangers: “When a stranger sojourns with you in your land, you shall not do him wrong. You shall treat the stranger who sojourns with you as the native among you, and you shall love him as yourself, for you were strangers in the land of Egypt: I am the Lord your God.” (Lev. 19:33-34)  The Israelites knew what it was like to be the new guy in town.  They knew how it felt to be disliked, ignored, mistreated, and misunderstood.  In God’s wisdom, he challenged them to forever remember the feeling of being an outsider, and to use that emotion to bring outsiders in.

In the New Testament, Paul continues the metanarrative of hospitality throughout the epistles.  Here’s just a sampling…

•    Contribute to the needs of the saints and seek to show hospitality. (Rom. 12:13)
•    Show hospitality to one another without grumbling. (1 Pet. 4:9)
•    Let brotherly love continue. Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares. (Heb. 13:1)

The point of these passages should be self-explanatory, so as a pastor, let me explain it to you: God wants us to care about people.  A church that is only concerned about those in the church is not a church at all, but a social club.  There are far too many churches where you have to crack the code or know the language or master the secret handshake in order to feel like you belong.  But the New Testament church was one of openness, love, and sincere hospitality for the stranger.

Alexander Strauch says that hospitality is the launching pad for the gospel.  It is through our love that people often experience God’s love for the first time.  In the next post, we’ll talk about what that looks like on a typical weekend at the Summit

Guest Blogger: Jeremy Pollard, Summit Kids Pastor. We asked him to write on what God taught him through a tragic event in his life a couple of years ago. His answer, the power of prayer.

We never understood the power of prayer and the fact that it could change things until we couldn’t pray for ourselves.  In August of 2007, our family was involved in a head-on collision that nearly took our lives.  We were headed to church when a 19 year old crossed the yellow line and hit us travelling at about 55 mph.  Stephen, who was 16 months old at the time, was knocked unconscious and sat lifeless in his carseat as we waited for medical help to arrive.  By God’s grace, a nurse who had seen the wreck stopped, took Stephen to the side of the road, and performed CPR.  After what seemed like an eternity, he began breathing again and was rushed to the hospital.  Once the paramedics and firemen arrived, Tiffany and I were cut out of the car and taken by ambulance to the same hospital as Stephen.  That night, as we lay in the Emergency Room, the waiting area became a sanctuary, a place of prayer.  Students and their parents, who we had given our lives in ministry to, along with family and friends all crowded in the ER and began begging God to spare our lives.

Early the next morning, I was taken into emergency surgery where a rod was placed in both of my upper legs to replace broken femurs.  Tiffany also had surgery that morning on a broken femur and exploratory surgery that revealed a torn intestine, 3 broken ribs, and a broken sternum.  We were both placed in the ICU with one bed between us.  The next day, Tiffany woke up and was amazed to find out that Stephen was going to be released from the hospital in the next few days.  Not long after, however, the Dr. came back in to inform her that after further tests, Stephen was more severely injured than they had originally thought.  Every ligament connecting his skull to his vertebrae had been torn.  A serious surgery would have to be done, and Stephen would lay in an induced coma in the PICU until then. During this time of uncertainty, I could not pray as Tiffany and others were doing on a nonstop basis.

After surgery, my body developed fat embolism syndrome and shut down.  I lay in a coma for 13 days and had a 33% chance of surviving and living a normal life in the future.  I was completely reliant on others’ prayers although I didn’t know it at the time.  After nearly 2 weeks in the hospital, Tiffany was released and moved into the Ronald McDonald House.  In addition to the first surgery, she also had a metal plate surgically placed into both her ankle and wrist.  She also miscarried our second child during this time.  Stephen successfully had his neck surgery where a metal plate, 7 screws, and one of his ribs were put into the back of his neck.  He wore a neck brace for awhile but was released from the hospital after 4 weeks.  After many ups and downs, I woke up from my coma and had 2 additional surgeries where a metal plate was put into my arm and my heel was reconstructed.  I also had a broken ankle.  After 4 weeks, I too was released from the hospital and went home.

Was this an easy time in our family’s life?  I can emphatically say no.  Did we experience God’s hand and see the power of prayer more than ever before?  I can emphatically say yes.  No, we couldn’t pray for ourselves, but others could.  And I firmly believe their prayers had the power to change things and make a difference in our lives.

Post by Sharon Miller, a Summit member and leader at the Saturday night service at our Brier Creek Campus.

Several months ago my small group got so big that we had to make a decision: keep accepting new women, or cap it off? We’d been together for years and intimacy is a tough thing to build, so we went with the latter. Cap it.

Shortly thereafter we got an e-mail from one of the group members. She’d decided to break off from the group and plant a new one. If we were turning women away, then clearly the church needed more small groups. That’s what she aimed to do.

I eventually had a chance to sit down with her and hear more about her thinking. I was pretty challenged by it. When she started a new group it almost immediately exploded. So much so that they planted an additional two more groups in the following months. By January, they will be at six groups. She explained this phenomenon as follows:

“The girls knew from the start that God might call some of them out of the group to start new ones. We were praying for that. But in the mean time we responded to our numbers by asking for a miracle of intimacy. Even though our group was big and no one knew each other, we asked God to provide.”

This idea of praying for a “miracle of intimacy” totally blew my categories. We think of miracles in terms of an inexplicable healing from cancer, or surviving a natural disaster, not small group relationships.

The conversation made me wonder if our pragmatism makes faith unnecessary. As long as we have a system, we don’t have to rely on God to provide. Or when we do seek Him, it’s more of a “Lord, please be present in this” approach. We may exercise faith by acknowledging the need for God’s presence, but are we making room for the miraculous? Are we allowing for God to move in ways that make our systems obsolete?

Planning and organization should not be under-rated. God calls us to be good stewards of what we have. But we go awry when our systems turn into limits on where and how God can move. God can provide a miracle of intimacy in small groups that are busting at the seams. He can multiply the proverbial loaves and fishes of whatever meager resources we have. So rather than work from a theology of scarcity or a ministry driven by pragmatism, we should work from a theology of abundance. We already have more than we will ever need.

As one of the worship pastors at the Summit, worship is one of the most significant words in my vocabulary. (After all, it’s in my job title!) What comes to mind when you hear the word “worship”? Briefly, I want to challenge your understanding of that word…

First, we are created to worship. Yes, Chris Tomlin is right, you and I were made to worship. Shortly after God created Adam, He placed him in the garden and gave him a purpose—to work it and to take care of it. These two verbs, as noted by a prominent Hebrew scholar, can be translated “worship and obey.” So, the first charge given to humankind was to worship.

What exactly is worship? Worship is more than just music. In a single phrase—worship is a lifestyle. Check out Romans 12:1. After considering who God is and all that He’s done for us (Romans 1-11), the logical response is to offer our entire lives up to Him. When we encounter the living God and see the beauty of the gospel, is there a more appropriate response than a lifestyle of worship?

You can probably imagine the radical implications of this worshipful lifestyle. Every action, every circumstance, even every thought becomes an opportunity to worship our Lord. Previously mundane tasks—commuting to work, watching a movie, or even changing diapers—are transformed into intentional reflections upon the majesty of God. Before you know it, your lifestyle is the embodiment of Scriptures like Psalm 19:14 and 1 Corinthians 10:31.

As a worshipper, learning to ask the right questions is imperative. If you haven’t realized it yet, there’s not a formula for every single aspect of the worshipful life. So, start by asking yourself, “How can God be glorified in this circumstance?” Or, “Am I worshipping God with the way I do this?”

I hope this post stretches your definition of worship. Hopefully, you’ll find more freedom and meaning in everyday situations as you strive to worship God. In some of my future posts, I’ll try to unpack how this biblical lifestyle of worship can apply in specific scenarios.

As a church, we are continually looking for ways to impact our community with the love of Jesus Christ. This year, instead of asking people to come to us, we are going to them. The Worship Choir will be singing at Southpoint Mall in Durham this Friday night, December 4, from 6-9 in the food court. They will sing for about 30 minutes at a time and take short breaks throughout the night.  Wear your Summit t-shirts, invite a friend and come join us this Friday night!

2010 will mark the the 5th year of existence of the Gallery Church in New York City.  As we approach this anniversary, I find myself looking back on all has taken place since we began this journey.  It is certainly true that "the Lord has done great things for us and we are filled with joy."  There have been a lot of victories.  There have also been setbacks along the way that have proven to be great learning experiences.  We are deeply indebted to the people who have journeyed with us.  We are especially thankful for the partnership of churches like the Summit. 

Partner churches have been vital to making our ministry happen over these last 5 years.  Anytime you start a church from scratch (we literally had 8 people at our first meeting), you wonder how you are going to get the resources to accomplish the vision that God has given you.  A city like New York City only compounds that anxiety.  New York is one of the most expensive cities in the world.  The average cost of a one-bedroom apartment in Manhattan is about $3000 a month.  That’s about what we pay for our little 597 square foot slice of heaven for our family of 3.  So without the partnership of churches like the Summit, our family literally wouldn’t be able to live in the middle of its "mission field."

So now that we are almost to our 5th birthday, has the strategy paid off?  I’m sure this is a question that many of you are asking.  I am happy to say that it has.  One of the best things about living in the heart of the city is that it’s enabled us build relationships with our neighbors. These relationships have grown slowly, but over time we have seen our friendships with our neighbors grow strong – so much so that this last year, at our son’s 3rd birthday party, over 80% of the people there were our neighbors. We’re now starting to see some of these people come check out our church.  Over the past couple of weeks my wife, Carmen, has had so many conversations with other moms about spiritual things…many of these women have NO ONE to talk to.  Their husbands work long hours, and they are struck at home raising their children, with no family or community around them.  Carmen has become a voice of encouragement in their lives and is starting to see some of the fruit of her labors. 

If the city is going to be changed, it is going to be changed from the inside out--Christian people sharing Jesus with people in the midst of doing life with them.  I am grateful that churches like Summit are giving us this opportunity!

1) Spence Shelton--Summit Small Groups

2) Sarah Carver--Summit Kids

3) Tori Summers--Summit Worship

Lots of great thoughts there for you to think through.  Click here to check it out.

The Valley of Vision: A Collection of Puritan Prayers & Devotions
 
Fresh Wind, Fresh Fire by Jim Cymbala
 
Celebration of Discipline: The Path to Spiritual Growth by Richard J. Foster
 
Prayer: Finding the Heart’s True Home by Richard J. Foster
 
How to Develop a Powerful Prayer Life by Gregory R. Frizzell,
 
A Praying Life: Connecting with God in a Distracting World by Paul E. Miller
 
Prayer: Does it Make Any Difference? By Philip Yancey
 

I want to see and be a part of a huge movement of God. Some of you have been persistently knocking & asking since our days at Homestead Heights…you persistently prayed for God to move and look at us now! Out grew a High School! Multisite! Church Planting!
 
Wake up! We are in the midst of God moving..here in RDU and around the world. Our church has experienced 31% increase since last year.
 
Yes we have growing pains and a building that is about to be too small…but I am convinced that we haven’t even begun to see what God wants to do! What would it look like if everyone at the Summit, at every campus would believe that God was close, powerful and willing…what if we all prayed desperate, bold, impossible prayers like the widow in Luke 18?
 
Please join me and others as we cry out to God on this city’s behalf. Please pray for the future of the Summit campus and how we can reach those who don’t know God wants to be present in their lives too.
 
It’s not that we don’t know how to pray… Many of us just don’t pray. Commit this week to start praying! 

Post by:
Ryan Doherty
Campus Pastor
Cole Mill Campus

Day 62: Proverbs 31
Danielle Eggleton

So we’ve walked through the book of Proverbs twice over the course of the past two months together (Beginning July 21st believe it or not).  And usually once people get to the end of something, they then take time to look back- right? Or at least it’s generally wise to do so in order to reflect.  As I pondered this idea, LOOKING BACK took on several forms.   

As I LOOKED BACK over Proverbs 1, where we began, and I observed these themes in vs. 2-6: wisdom, understanding, giving instruction, receiving instruction, giving prudence to the simple, listening, and learning.  But the heart of it all came in verse 7, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge… “   Look carefully at how many of these themes show up throughout Proverbs 31.

This key theme is spelled out very practically in this last chapter.  Verse 3 “Do not give your strength to ______, your ways to things that destroy kings”- Fill in the blank – what “things/idols/distractions” do we pour our strength into when Fear of Man nor anything else should replace the Fear of the Lord in our lives.  Or in verse 21 “She is not afraid of snow for her household” shows us that we should not be driven by fear of circumstances, but rather trust/fear the Lord.  Verse 25 “Strength and dignity are her clothing, and she laughs at the time to come” illustrates that the fear of the Lord produces JOY.  Lastly, verse 26 “ She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue” demonstrates exactly what Proverbs 1:7 said from the beginning- the fear of the Lord produces wisdom. 

J.D. suggested, at the Forum on “The Call”, to make a spiritual timeline of our lives to see the things that God has taught us.  LOOK BACK over the timeline of just the past 62 days and ask yourself that same question…  I hope what you find is encouraging… I hope what you find is a God who loves you… and I hope what you find is the Gospel at the very core of it all.

Day 61: Proverbs 30
Abby Dunn, Evening Campus Worship Team

Growing up, the word humility got thrown around a lot at church, but was never quite explained.   From how it appeared, humility was synonymous with weakness, meekness, and maybe a little bit of depression mixed in.  Folks would even joke about the danger of praying for humility, because God just might answer that prayer!

 But as I look at Proverbs 30, verses 1-6, Biblical humility seems to be something far more comprehensive and encouraging.  The writer starts by confidently confessing his stupidity.  But instead of leaving the focus on his own failures, as we might assume humility would entail, he points us toward the Author of all wisdom and strength, the One who is "a shield to those who take refuge in Him." (v. 5)  As Christians, this is an encouraging reminder that our identities are not found in what we accomplish or fail to achieve, but in what God has done on our behalf through Christ's work on the cross. 

 Biblical humility is recognition of our weaknesses, but an even greater recognition in God's strength.  For me, this has been encouraging and freeing, because as I seek to cultivate humility in my own life, it's not something I have to force myself to do or even be scared of - it comes simply through beholding what Christ has accomplished for me.  

Day 60: Proverbs 29
Matt Clark, Church Planting Team

My wife and I find ourselves about 5 weeks away from having our first child!  Our days recently have been filled with birthing classes, reading books about raising children, and praying for wisdom on how to raise a godly child. We are looking everywhere for practical advice on how to best care for our baby.  There are few better places to find this instruction than Proverbs 29.

We are finding that everyone has their own ideas and preferences about how to raise a child.  However, when God’s Word gives us warnings about parenthood, we better pay attention!  One of the themes of Proverbs 29 is the blessing that results from a commitment to discipline and the ruin that comes to those who neglect it.  Soloman tells us that faithful discipline will give to the child wisdom (v. 15) while at the same time it gives the parents peace and delight in their hearts (v. 17). To neglect discipline would bring shame upon the parents (v.15).

In our discipline, are we to teach our children to fear us?  No, the goal of our discipline is to teach our children to fear and trust the Lord (v. 25).  Parents are called, however, to be priests and prophets in their homes.  We are given the charge (v. 18) to proclaim the Word of God to our children and each other, and to shepherd our children’s hearts as instructed by God.  Verse 18 makes it clear that the result of neglecting this command would be for our children to “cast off restraint” rather than to experience the blessing that comes from following God’s law.

Look through the rest of Proverbs 29 and identify other practical principles for us to learn and to pass on to the next generation.

Day 59: Proverbs 28
Tim Jones, BCAM Campus Intern

This passage proved especially convicting for me as someone who daily does things that God says he will judge- especially since I allow my heart to grow hard and think more of myself than I ought.

The key verse of the passage is verse five: "Evil men do not understand justice, but those who seek the LORD understand it completely."

This chapter is dealing with the contrast between those who pursue the Lord and those who rebel.  I was struck by the way in which God continues to bless those who follow him, and withhold blessing from those who deceive, transgress and sin.  I hope to always "walk in integrity, and be delivered"(v.18).

Day 58: Proverbs 27
Susan Hall, Administrative Assistant

The words of this proverb ring out a clear and unmistakable warning to friends everywhere: Don’t just be the “yes” friend.  Speak the truth to those God has put in your life with love and grace.   But make sure to be a friend that has earned the right to be heard.  Because hard words spoken in love out of a desire to serve each other can save us from a multitude of hurt.

Verse seven says, “One who is full loathes honey, but to one who is hungry everything bitter is sweet.”  When we’re lonely and isolated from godly community, we’ll turn anywhere to fill the void in our hearts.  Often, those places end up being exactly what we DON’T need: an unhealthy relationship with the opposite sex, co-dependency with friends or families, drug or alcohol abuse…you name it. 

God has called us to live in community with one another as believers.  Let’s face it, we’re not islands.  We need each other.  But how?  Look to the ultimate example of a friend who sticks closer than a brother: Jesus.   If you’re in need of some real friends, or looking for a community to live life with, check out our Small Groups website and begin experiencing the kind of transparent, real friendship Proverbs 27 encourages. 

Day 57: Proverbs 26
Cynthia Mann, Director of Counseling

Have you ever desperately needed to hear truth and then received advice that sounded good, but held no authority because of who was giving it?  This proverb spends an awful lot of time warning us about how we are to behave ourselves in the face of foolishness.  We should not honor it, engage it, or employ it.  Even wise words lose their function when a fool utters them.    They are compared to a lame man’s legs-useless, and a thorn that goes into a drunkard’s hand (probably infected and festering by the time he notices it). We have all experienced this, we hear a message of wisdom time and again, but we know how that person really lives, so we cannot credit the words.  We may even become bitter or disillusioned as we keep searching for truth and find only foolish babblers.   Then suddenly, we hear the exact same words from someone who isn’t a fool, and we understand their value.  The words have life, they move through our life without lameness, and they heal rather than fester.  Some of us may be in a place of speaking wisdom rather than seeking it.  If so, stop for a moment and ask yourself, are you being a “wisdom destroyer” in your foolishness or a “wisdom giver” as your life actually reflects your words?

Day 56: Proverbs 25
Eric Stortz, Small Groups Intern

Verse 1 tells us that the following Proverb was written by a king, and then copied down years later by another king's court.  The chapter leads out with advice for and about kings, and then turns to advice for dealing wisely with neighbors.  One aspect of the king's personality emerges in this chapter- the king is concerned with how his people relate to one another.  Inside his court, he wants to establish his throne in righteousness and thus have the wicked removed from the court (v. 5).  In the community he wants self-controlled individuals (v. 16, 27-28) who treat neighbors fairly and consideratley (vs. 8-9, 17-20, 24).  He even promotes kindness among enemies (vs. 21-22)!  Good news about his kingdom will be to him like cold water on a hot day.

Israel desired and expected a king who would be concerned for the righteousness and peace of his people.  Isaiah describes the Messiah this way:  his government will be eternally peaceful and established with justice and righteousness (Is. 9:7-8);  he will "judge the poor, and decide with equity for the meek of the earth" (Is. 11:1-9); and he will "faithfully bring forth justice" (Is. 42:1-4).  Ezekiel describes the Messiah as a Good Shepherd that will feed the people, bind up the injured, strengthen the weak, and otherwise care for his people.  As you read Proverbs 25, think about Jesus who provides the example, teaches, and empowers us to live righteously and peacefully.  May our King receive a good report about how we live in His Kingdom.

Day 55: Proverbs 24
Bethany Cox, Administrative Assistant

I love the raw honesty found in the book of Proverbs; reading it, however, often makes me uncomfortable! If you’re like me, Chapter 24 serves as a good reality check for those of us who, over time, have become far too comfortable with sin.

Admittedly, it is easy in the world in which we live to become calloused by sin and to have our hearts hardened against things that lead, spiritually, to death. But Proverbs 24 paints a fairly clear picture of what the future holds for those who entertain evil. It states that they are brought down by calamity (v.16), they have no future hope (v. 20), and that sudden destruction will be brought upon them (v. 22). In fact, a glance back into Chapter 8 tells us that to fear the Lord is to hate evil (v. 13). Why? Because it is in direct contrast to the nature of Christ. If I ever needed to be reminded of just how much God hates sin, I need only to look at the cross – where God’s Son was tortured, mocked and beaten for it – for my sin.

But wait! Because of that, there is hope! Chapter 24 goes on to say that there is a future hope for those that pursue wisdom (v. 3), knowledge (v. 5), and righteousness (v. 15).  For though a righteous man falls seven times, He rises again (vs. 16).  Pray with me today that individually and as a church body, God would make us aware and responsive to the sin around us as we actively seek to bear His image and reflect His glory in all we say and do.

Day 54: Proverbs 23
Chris Watkins, Cole Mill Campus Intern

At first it can seem somewhat intimidating when trying to apply Proverbs 23 as a whole to our lives.  The  key to unpacking this proverb lies in verse 19.  Here Solomon urges us to listen to his advice, saying "Hear, my son, and be wise, and direct your heart in the way."  So this begs the question, what does the wise king want to tell us?

The majority of Solomon's advice focuses on making wise choices.  Here we see a series of practical steps that we are to take in order to avoid error.  Solomon covers a wide variety of subjects, ranging from the dangers of wealth, the raising of children, and the entrapments of drunkenness.  Throughout this proverb Solomon is urging us to consider all of the actions we take carefully, for they can have long-term ramifications.

Day 53: Proverbs 22
Jeremy Young, West Club Campus Intern

Chapter 22 is full of Gospel-centered wisdom. For example, verse 4 says, “The reward for humility and fear of the Lord is riches and honor and life.” This verse forces our minds to think of how Jesus humbled himself as Paul describes in Philippians 2. In short, Jesus came to earth in the form of a man and humbled himself to die on a cross so that I could be reconciled back to God. It was through Jesus humbling himself and making this gracious reward available to me that I am able to experience the riches of God, specifically his gracious love.

Realizing what Jesus did on my behalf forces me toward humility. When I tend toward prideful thoughts of myself I get further away from a biblical understanding of what it means to know God. But when I dwell on the Gospel, I am reminded that the salvation that I have received was not accomplished by any of my doing. When I dwell on the Gospel I am overwhelmed by the abundant, never-ceasing riches of God’s grace toward me.  I am more than honored to be adopted in his family and called a son of God. As for life, Jesus has given me abundant life in the present by the presence of the Holy Spirit and in the future I’ll see Jesus face-to-face. The fact that He would love me this much to do all of this for me is overwhelming and humbling. Jesus is our example of humility.

Day 52: Proverbs 21
Cynthia Mann, Director of Counseling

My mom tells this story of me as a little girl growing up in Mexico, shaking my finger at her and saying, “ni modo, Mami, ni modo” (translation: “tough, Mommy, tough”).  Apparently, I did it pretty often…usually when telling my mom she had no choice but to give in to my plan for whatever was going on (thankfully I had a pretty wise mom who knew how to control my dictator tendencies…).  Who would have known that this would become a lifelong habit?  My life…my way…In fact, my choice to follow the Lord had nothing to do with understanding the truth of the gospel, and everything to do with whether or not I could finally accede that God knew better and had a better plan for my life.

I like to think of the moment I accepted Christ not just as a moment of salvation, but as the moment I waved the flag of surrender in the battle for my life.  Proverbs 21 overflows with warnings about the life I was choosing (and sometimes still choose).  Thoughts like “I want, I need, I can, I will, I know better” are contrasted with wisdom and upright character.  Today, as a counselor, I make a daily choice about who’s thoughts are better…mine, or God’s?  Verse 30 stands as a direct warning to me…no wisdom, no understanding, no counsel can compare to God’s.  There are so many times when the world tells us it is better, wiser, more worthy to act in a way that directly contradicts what we know God wants for our lives.  We are told to indulge ourselves, to lie for gain, to seek power, money, and pride.  It comes down to who we believe both in thought and in function…who are you believing today?

Day 51: Proverbs 20
Raudel Hernandez, Summit en Espanol Pastor

“What a long list of advices!” That was my first thought when reading Proverbs 20, for example, if we summarize what each verse is saying it would sound something like this: v.1 “don’t be mastered by alcohol”, v.2 “get the King angry and you’ll get killed”, v.3 “real man walk away from fights”, v.4 “don’t be lazy”, and  on, and on. All great advice, but, how can I be reminded of all this advice when I need it most? Seems to me like I read a Proverb only to forget all about it 3 months later; how can all this advice be truly at my fingertips so that I can reach for it when I need it most?

I find the first answer in v.5, “Counsel in the heart of man is like deep water; but a man of understanding will draw it out.” In other words v.5 is saying, “how bad do you want it? if you want God’s wisdom bad enough, he will give it to you, but you have to dive for it”. When you toil for something, you hardly forget it. I bet you still know your math times tables? Why? Probably ‘cause you toiled so hard to learn those things, how can you ever forget them? Same principle here, dive in God’s word, and it will be at your fingertips, to help you and to bail you out. The second answer I find in v.9, Who can say, “I have made my heart pure; I am clean from my sin”?. What a slap in the face this verse is for me, yes is a good thing that I’m trying to memorize all this great advice in Proverbs, but, “don’t try to cover your sin with knowledge band aids, real wisdom is not knowing everything (which is my sinful tendency) real wisdom is to know we are sinners, in need of God’s grace, saved by Christ alone, through grace alone. Only He can make our hearts pure, cleanse our sin, and give us words of eternal life.

v.6 “talk is cheap, love is displayed in actions”, v.7 “love your kids? Be a man of integrity then…”, you read the rest :)

P.S. I have a really neat trick for the 9x time table, wanna find out? Come to a Summit en Espanol service

Day 50: Proverbs 19
Brandon Hudson, Student Ministry Coordinator (West Club)

One of the key verses for me in this passage is v.21 “Many are the plans in the mind of a man, but it is the purpose of the Lord that will stand.” Not only does it rhyme, it is an overriding principal into which all the other proverbs fit.

We may think that by lying and cheating, we will get ahead (v.5, 9, 22). It may be more comfortable for us to be lazy and do as little as possible, just barely getting by (v.15, 24). Some believe that because they worked hard for their money, it is theirs and they can do whatever they want with it, never seeing a need to be generous (v.6, 17).

What is fascinating to me is that most all of my actions make sense to me. When I do something, it is because I think it will be most beneficial. I am able to reason and explain just about anything in my own mind. Why should I give to the poor, they need to get a job. Why should I work hard when no one ever notices? Solomon tells us that no matter how much sense it makes to us, our plans are not what will stand. It is God’s plans that endure. Fear God, keeping his commands and trusting He knows best, and we will “rest satisfied” (v.23

Brad Ragle, Cole Mill Student Ministry Intern

How often do you find yourself in a conversation where you are listening for the sole purpose of spouting your opinion as soon as the other person is finished, or gossiping about someone for the purpose of glorifying yourself? As I read through this passage and examine my own life against it, I must confess that I find myself doing this far too often. JD spoke a couple weeks ago on verse 21 which states, “Death and life are in the power of the tongue…”.  I am reminded by this passage that as a follower of Christ, our words need to match our proclamation of who we are in Christ. We need to be speaking words that are uplifting and encouraging, while at the same time speaking words of truth in love and humility. Far too often we seem to find fault in others before we examine our own lives. And if that isn’t enough, Jesus said in Mathew 12:36-37 that we will be judged according to our words.

So how do we do this being the filthy, sinful humans that we are? The Cross provides the answer. If you are a follower of Christ, you are a new creation (2 Corinthians 5:17)! This means that we are no longer confined to chains of sin. In that same passage, 2 Corinthians 5:21, Paul tells us that God placed all humanity’s sin on Jesus as if it were His own and when Jesus died for our sins, God imputed the righteousness of Christ to us, as if it were ours. This provides us the freedom to no longer live bound by sin, but to speak the love and truth of Christ to all we come in contact with.

Challenge to myself and to you: Find someone every day this week to speak the love and truth of Christ to.

Day 48: Proverbs 17
Jeremy Pollard, Summit Kids Pastor

First off, there’s not one easy to follow theme in Proverbs 17.  The comparison of wisdom and foolishness, however, is dispersed throughout the chapter in many different forms and comparisons.  There is truly a verse for everyone in this chapter, and several significantly stuck out to me.

You’ll notice that verse 1 immediately refers to peace in the home.  One reason a home may have conflict is the foolishness of children (and parents…from whom the children may have learned it).  Proverbs 17:21 clearly says that having a foolish son brings grief and not joy.  We also see in verse 13 that this foolishness will be punished.  Other topics in this chapter include bribes, friendship, justice, finances, and a cheerful heart.  Check it out.  There’s sure to be a verse that speaks directly to you.

Day 47: Proverbs 16
David Thompson, Executive Pastor

I am not a counselor.  I took just enough counseling classes in seminary to make me dangerous.  But in one of my counseling classes I remember my professor saying that the more and more people are removed from Christian community, the more and more people need counseling.  He went on to explain that people go see counselors for healing words, but ideally people would find those words in the context of a biblical community.

As I read through Proverbs 16 I got stuck on verse 24. Maybe it was because of J.D.’s message a few weeks ago (Words That Bring Life), but I was mesmerized by this idea that gracious words can bring health to the body.  Our words have the power to bring healing, even life, to someone.

The Gospel is the announcement that Jesus is Lord and that He has accomplished on our behalf all that was required for us to be saved.  When we believe the words of the Gospel we are forgiven for our sins, and made new in Christ.

As new creations in Christ we now have the power to speak gracious words of life to others. 

(I don’t want this blog to turn into a promotional tool, but I also do not want you to miss an incredible opportunity to get connected in a biblical community.  Our small group connection event, GroupLink, is happening this weekend at all of our campuses.  Get connected and start speaking words of life to one another)

Day 46: Proverbs 15
Trevor Atwood, College Pastor

I need to make a confession…I really don’t like the book of Proverbs.  Yes, it is inspired, but most of us probably have our list of Bible books that we just don’t care for, right?

It is far too practical for me.  I think too many of us quickly make Proverbs a book of pithy sayings that could easily be inserted into a fortune cookie.  That is not the point of Proverbs.  These pages, as are all the pages of Scripture, are either screaming or whispering the name of Jesus, telling us something about God and his rescue plan for mankind.

Reading Chapter 15, the first and last verses strike me.   “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”  I thought about Jesus’ answers to the Pharisees.  Were they gentle?  Many times they were quite harsh.  He called the religious leaders of his day a brood of vipers. Ouch!  This certainly stirred their anger, enough for them to crucify him. 

Then verse 33, “before honor comes humility”.  Again, I think of the truth of this in Christ.  Philippians 2 speaks of the humility of Christ.  He humbled himself to the point of death, even on a cross. “For this reason God highly exalted him and bestowed on Him the name which is above every name.”  Even for Christ, God’s plan was humility to precede honor.  It was for him to suffer, in order to be honored.  Not only should we follow in his example, we should rejoice that in his humility turned to honor, he has given us the opportunity to humble ourselves before the Lord and share in the joy of Christ in his rightful place.  The object of our honor.

Day 45:  Proverbs 14
Danny Franks, Connections Pastor & Brier Creek AM Campus Pastor (reposted from last month)

If there's one thing I know about people (and by "people" I mean you and me), it's that we're not quite the brainiacs we think we are.  Rarely do we go into a situation thinking that we will be doomed to failure.  We often say things like, "I'm sure he's not as bad a guy as everyone says," or "It's not going to hurt to try it just this once," or "Really...how risky can an adjustable-rate mortgage be?" or my personal favorite given my Tennessee redneck heritage: "Hey y'all, watch this!"

The fact is, our foresight is much less reliable than our hindsight.  That's why Proverbs 14:12 is a verse that should be imprinted on our lives: "There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death."

We can look back on many of the events in our lives and know that this verse is absolutely true.  It's true relationally, it's true financially, it's true spiritually, emotionally, physically...you name it, it's true.  We tend to be pitiful predictors of the outcome of our own choices, and that's why a total tethering to God's word is so important.  We're almost halfway through our first journey through the book of Proverbs, so let me ask: How has it been for you so far?  Have you learned more about God's wisdom and your folly?  Have you seen the practical applications of Proverbs playing themselves out over these last two weeks?

God knows our future better than we do, and what's more, he cares more about our future than we ever can.  Commit that today will be lived in light of his wisdom for your life.

Day 44: Proverbs 13
Spence Shelton, Summit Small Groups Pastor

Ok, though it feels like Solomon is all ADD in this chapter of Proverbs (a new thought every 6 seconds) our time in Proverbs this summer has helped me see past that to pick up some really helpful teachings that come out as I read this chapter 13.

The father son relationship shows up in verses 1 & 24 specifically. Now that I am a dad I gotta tell you v.24 is going to be harder than I thought. I love that little guy and it will pain me to discipline him but since I dont hate him, I must. And as v.1 says as he grows if he is wise he will heed my instruction which will sometimes come in the form of discipline. Even beyond the father son relationship you see the general principle of Solomon in chapter 13 that the wise man listens to wisdom & instruction (v.13,14,18,20).

I also must mention one more thing I think you probably see as you read this chapter: the righteous vs. the wicked. Solomon says in v. 6 "Righteousness guards him whose way is blameless, but sin overthrows the wicked." Of course, no one's way is blameless right? See where this is going? That's right, the gospel. The New Testament tells us sin has overcome each one of us and that righteousness only comes through the death and resurrection of jesus Christ. That's why we call it our salvation. So no we are not blameless, but Christ is. And Christ's righteousness has been imputed to us so as Colossians 3:3 says we are now hidden with Christ. Righteousness guards us now and forever.

That's just a couple of the things I saw as I worked through this chapter and I am sure you saw or will see many more. 

Danny Franks, Connections and Brier Creek BCAM Campus Pastor

 Last week at our annual staff retreat, Pastor J.D. led us in a group exercise where we selected a co-worker and named one thing that we most appreciated about that person.  For more than half an hour, people stepped forward to "speak courage" into each others' lives, until finally Pastor J.D. had to call time so we could move on with the day.

The majority of us walked into that two-day retreat very overwhelmed with the work load that is the Summit Church.  We were people who had launched new campuses, started new service times, moved a campus from one day to another, and were running in circles trying to uncover new volunteers...but in that thirty minutes we felt like the weight of the world was lifted because of the encouragement we received from others.

 Proverbs 12:25 says that "anxiety in a man's heart weighs him down, but a good word makes him glad."  Who is is that is speaking courage into your life?  Have you surrounded yourself with people who are lifting you up rather than weighing you down?  More importantly: who are you speaking courage into?  Identify that co-worker, family member, friend or neighbor, and encourage them today!

Day 42: Proverbs 11
Jonathan Welch, BCPM Worship Pastor

Proverbs 11 encourages us to exhibit a generous lifestyle.  Consider verse 25—“A generous man will prosper; he who refreshes others will himself be refreshed.”

This mindset originates with the Gospel itself.  As Ephesians 2:1-10 tells us, when we were dead in our sins, God generously gave up His one and only Son, so that we might know Him.  What a gracious display of His abundant mercy!  This great salvation comes with a purpose—living out a lifestyle of worship through radical generosity. 

A generous lifestyle is a blessing to others (Prov. 11:25).  How can you live out the gospel today through radical generosity?  Think and pray through your words, your thoughts, your actions, your gifts, your time, and your possessions.  As people who have experienced God’s lavish grace and generous mercy, let’s live generously and rest in the refreshment that comes from embodying the gospel. 

Day 41: Proverbs 10
Ethan Welch, Small Groups Intern

Proverbs 10 marks a HUGE transition within the book of Proverbs! We can’t miss this! Solomon’s goal throughout Proverbs is that we would recognize there are TWO WAYS to live. The first way is the way of wisdom, following & fearing the Lord as God, and the second way is the way of folly (or foolishness), following & fearing ourselves as god. Chapters 1-9 present the framework and worldview for understanding the differences between the way of wisdom and the way of folly, including four metaphors: the Two “Paths” — the broad path and the narrow path; the Two “Sons”—the wise son and the foolish son; the Two “Houses”—the house of wisdom and the house of folly; the Two “Women”—lady wisdom and lady folly. Chapters 10-29 present hundreds of individual proverbs comparing the practical consequences of following wisdom or following folly.

                Of the 32 verses in this chapter, 30 of them are a comparison & contrast between wisdom and folly. Solomon teaches us that all of life can be lived in either one of two ways. Whether we’re talking about family, finances, work, speech, or long life, everyone lives with an underlying worldview centered either on themselves and this world, or centered on God and His word. Those who have centered their lives on God can expect the results of joy, happiness, fulfillment, blessings and success. Those who have centered their lives on themselves can expect the results of ruin, shame, poverty and destruction. For those of us who are followers of Jesus, we can rest assured that all we need for satisfaction, joy, and fulfillment is found in the gospel. In the gospel, we no longer follow ourselves, but understand what it means to follow Jesus. Because he is our God and Savior, he fulfills and satisfies us, restoring us back to the way we were originally created in a loving relationship with our God.

Time:  3:00 PM

Location:  Brier Creek Campus in the Bay

Summit Worship is hosting a free forum for any aspiring songwriter, with the intent of fostering a community of songwriters at the Summit who pen what God is doing in our church.  No previous songwriting experience is necessary.  In these monthly forums, we will explore the components of strong, biblical songwriting.  Significant time will be devoted to collaborating with one another in the songwriting process.  Whether you prefer to write lyrics, music, or both, come out and join us this Sunday!  For more information, or to register for the forum, please contact Jonathan Welch (JWelch@SummitRDU.com). 

Day 40: Proverbs 9
Adam Moore, Associate Connections Pastor

I cannot imagine many of us that like to be corrected.  I remember when I would finish a presentation in school and my teacher would begin to give me “constructive criticism.”  I always believed this was a sugar coated way of saying that they were about to point out everything that I had done wrong.  I would become defensive, and think what do they know anyway?  However, this is minor compared to how we feel when someone points out a correction needed in our personal lives.  When a spouse or close friend directs us to an area of our life that needs our attention, we are quick to run to our own defense.  We think of the many reasons why they just don’t understand, or we believe they are simply mistaken.  If that does not seem to work, we begin to compile a list of their faults, so what right do they have to correct us anyway?  However, Proverbs 9 teaches a different attitude toward correction:

7 Whoever corrects a scoffer gets himself abuse, and he who reproves a wicked man incurs injury.  8 Do not reprove a scoffer, or he will hate you; reprove a wise man, and he will love you. 9 Give instruction to a wise man, and he will be still wiser; teach a righteous man, and he will increase in learning.

These verses are convicting because I know how often I react as the scoffer instead of the wise man. I want to become angry, instead of accepting the correction in love.  Why, because in my pride I feel that I have all the answers, I have everything together, and am confident in my own abilities. So how do I do the wise thing and set aside my pride to accept correction?  The answer is in verse 10 when Solomon says, “the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.”  When we fear God and understand His perfection, our imperfection becomes much more obvious. As we really begin to grasp that truth, maybe that correction does not seem to be such a strecth anymore.  And in this mindset, we are able to begin to accept the correction that God gives to us, so that we are able to grow in His wisdom.

Day 39: Proverbs 8
Susan Hall, Administrative Assistant

“Does not wisdom call?  Does not understanding raise her voice?” Proverbs 8 begins.   From our study in Proverbs 1:20 we know the answers to these questions even as they ask them: She does!  She does!  But why don’t we listen? 

We’ve all been in situations that result in us being cheated or lied to- our trust being broken or taken advantage of by someone.  Some of us have been badly hurt in these areas- particularly when, like the adulteress figure in Proverbs 6 and 7, their words seemed truthful and sincere in the moment.  Perhaps a conversation with someone you thought you could trust that ended up broadcasted to all your friends, or a word of promise that fell flat when it really mattered.  We’ve all been there.  And often the result are hardened, cynical and untrusting people who have difficulty believing ANYONE or ANYTHING isn’t twisted or crooked. 

The glorious hope for the cynics of the world (and the one writing this now) is that there is one-the source and creator of all the wisdom we’re learning about in the Proverbs- who “will speak NOBLE THINGS, and from [his] lips will come what is RIGHT, [his] mouth will utter truth….all the words of [his] mouth are righteous; there is NOTHING twisted or crooked in them.” (v. 6-8)  We have a God who is utterly trustworthy.  All the things he says are true.  Say it with me: ALL HIS WORDS ARE TRUE.  Guaranteed. 

We’ve all been hurt.  It’s hard to trust that anyone means what they say.  But believe this: Even when everything around us seems just a little bit crooked, HIS words are true.  We can listen, believe and obey with confidence.  What a relief. 

Now to make sure the words WE say are noble and true….

2 Samuel 7:27; Psalms 19:7, 111:7, 119:138. 

Day 38: Proverbs 7
Lori Perdue, Administrative Assistant

Sexual temptation.  It’s everywhere – TV, internet, billboards, and in our very minds.  It’s a subject most people seem to shy away from.  But why?  Every one of us has experienced it more than a few times in our lives – whether we’re a man or a woman, married or single.  And we know God is not shy about it (check out the “Exposed” sermon series).  So what does Proverbs 7 say about it

Proverbs 7 is a warning – and an encouragement.  It draws an explicit picture of a married woman seducing a man with both her body and words.  What is the consequence of this man’s choice?  We read in verses 22-23 that it results in death.  While I read Proverbs 7, I can’t help but think of David.  In Acts 13:22, God describes David as a man after God’s own heart.  However, while I read about David’s sin with Bathsheba in 2 Samuel 11, can this really be the same man whose heart that God said was close to His own?  That’s the fundamental difference between our hearts and God’s – while our hearts long after sinful things, Jesus’ heart longs only after God.  After David takes Bathsheba into his bed, does the Lord suddenly strike him down with lightening?  No.  When Bathsheba learns she is pregnant with David’s child, David continues down the slippery slope of sin and eventually ends up sending her husband to the front line in a war, thus killing him.  David then takes Bathsheba as his wife.   Everything’s all right now since they’re married, right?  Still no.  Since David has sinned against God, the wages of that sin is death (also in 2 Samuel 12:13).  But instead of taking David’s life, God takes the child that David and Bathsheba conceived. 

Is there no hope then?  Certainly not!  We have hope in Jesus Christ, who takes away our sin and dies in our place.  And how do we combat against the constant sexual temptation?  In Genesis 39, Joseph is bombarded day after day with Potiphar’s wife seducing him.  When he kept refusing to have sex with her, she even tried to grab his clothes to keep him by her.  Joseph, instead of giving in, ran from the house.  He literally runs across the yard to get away from her – from sexual temptation.  Why?  How?  Proverbs 7:1-5 tells us exactly how: store up the Lords commands (v. 1) by memorizing Scripture, guard the teachings of Jesus as the apple of your eye (v. 2) by realizing the Word of God is as precious to us as our eyes, bind the commands of God to our fingers (v. 3) by having Scripture at hand and putting it into action, call wisdom our sister (v. 4) by having the Word of God as close to us as a dear family member, and to know the Scriptures intimately as this will point out our weakness which we will then know to be more aware of (v. 5).  Use the Scriptures as a filter for our lives.  As you study Proverbs 7 today, ask yourself what your weakness are and how you can put your combat plan into action.  Pray that the Lord will give you the wisdom to fight against temptation.

We received good feedback from the following post the first time around and are re-posting it today as we look into Proverbs 6.

Day 6 / 37 : Proverbs 6
Veronica Greear, Pastor J.D.'s wife & volunteer in Summit Kids ministry

Proverbs six is basically broken into two halves, unrelated to each other in any way.  My Bible calls the first half "Warnings Against Folly," while the second is entirely devoted to warnings about adultery.  And while the second half is not to be missed (v. 26 says that if you go to a prostitute you are like a loaf of bread - maybe JD will unpack that for us someday), especially since the entire previous chapter and the entire following chapter are also devoted to adultery (I am thinking the sheer volume of material is screaming something), I am just going to talk about the first half of the chapter.

Most people have heard about the "Seven Deadly Sins."  I don't know about you, but they were always kind of scarily intriguing to me:  what were they?  Where were they?  What was deadly about them and why?  However, there actually isn't a single place in the Bible that that comes from - there is no place where it says "...and the seven deadly sins are..."  But in verses 16 through 19 of this chapter Solomon actually says, "There are six things the Lord hates, seven that are detestable to him..."  You may have heard J.D. say that saying first there are six, then immediately saying there are seven was a Hebrew way of emphasizing the point; he wasn't just confused and making it up as he went along.  And then Solomon lists, very poetically: pride, lying, murder, a scheming heart, feet that 'rush into evil,' gossip, and a man who stirs up conflict.  So there you have it-sort of a seven deadly sins.  And they are all interestingly rather related.  A proud man would more than likely have a scheming, manipulative heart, gossip certainly stirs up conflict, and a liar is usually rushing into evil, whether she knows it or not!  I don't know if there is as much 'mystique' about this list as I expected, but there is conviction.  I am on that list at least three times, and that is generous.  But in teh beginning of the chapter Solomon gives his son the answer for conviction:  "Go and humble yourself..." (v. 3.)  We know from just about every book in the Bible, including Proverbs, that God will never turn away a humble, repentant heart.

Day 36: Proverbs 5
Andrew Hopper, Young Pros Pastor

Day 35: Proverbs 4
Tori Summers, Worship Associate

As I read Proverbs 4 again and let myself absorb the words, verse 23 began to leap off the page at me. “Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life”. The springs of life! The springs, the channels, the pathways of life. The condition of my heart is what Solomon says determines the paths of my life.

Frequently throughout the Bible, over 860 times actually, a man’s character is described by the condition of his heart. Strikingly, the vast majority of these references depict the heart as being stubborn, evil, wicked, or spiteful. As believers we want to walk righteously, we want to choose the best path. So if our hearts determine our paths, and these hearts are inherently wicked, how do we make them pure?

We don’t. Hebrews 10:20-22 says that “since we have a great priest [Jesus] over the house of God, let us draw near with a true [pure] heart in full assurance of our faith, with our hearts sprinkled clean from an evil conscience”. Christ’s death and resurrection brought the ultimate cleansing of our sinful hearts. However, as a result of living in a fallen world, we still allow our thoughts, our will, our hearts to pollute our actions and lead us to stray from His path. So what do we do now? We simply surrender our hearts to Christ, again and again. Surrender our thoughts, surrender our desires, surrender our will. We take our hearts captive to Him and let Him purify the well that produces our life springs. Then our springs cannot help but flow along “the paths of uprightness” (v.11).

Day 34: Proverbs 3
Heidi Garrett, Small Groups College Institute Intern

Reading through the first part of Proverbs 3, I find myself getting
anxious and overwhelmed by all the things I feel like I should be doing,
but I'm not or by things I shouldn't be doing that I am. The two verses
that stuck out the most and tugged on my heart strings were verses 25 and 26.

"Have no fear of sudden disaster
       or of the ruin that overtakes the wicked,
 for the LORD will be your confidence
       and will keep your foot from being snared."

 It was like those verses calmed the anxiety and frustration because theymade me realize I was stressing out over the capabilities that I have to change myself, when I should really be relying on God's ability to
completely refine me. It was like God saying, "Don't fear anything, I'm
here, I've gotcha". The thing is, I forget that wisdom of who He is and
His power and get stressed out because I can't change anything on my own. Are you stressing out because of things you feel like you can't change? There is freedom in Christ's wisdom.

Day 32: Proverbs 1
Mike McDaniel, Church Planting Center Director

The fear of the Lord is the BEGINNING of knowledge (Pro 1:7). Take a second and think about what that verse is saying. That’s a pretty bold claim. Basically Solomon is saying, if you really want to know how to live, you have to begin with a fear of the Lord. Now if you’re like me that seems a little extreme. I know I’m not perfect; but I tend to think I’ve got a pretty good grasp of how to live. I can get by alright on my own.

Solomon’s words serve as a much-needed wakeup call – you don’t know as much as you think you know. You see, Solomon understood that our minds deceive us, so that often what seems right to us is actually harmful (see Pro 14:12), or we fail to choose what is good when it’s right in front of us.

The only way to obtain true life-giving knowledge is through the fear of the Lord. It’s only when we get a proper understanding of the complete holiness and righteousness of God that we respect his wisdom for our lives. That’s what the fear of the  Lord is all about – recognizing where we stand before a Holy God, and how much we need his wisdom to show us how to live. Without that fear, we can know a lot about God, without that knowledge actually leading us closer to Him.

If you find yourself in that place – if you struggle with translating what’s in your head down to your heart, the Proverbs are a great place to start growing in your fear of the Lord. As we read through Proverbs for the second time, I would encourage you to pay special attention to what they say about the character of God, especially His righteousness and holiness, and then consider the cross in light those qualities.

Day 31: Proverbs 31
Jena-Marie Obrien, Wife of West Club Campus Pastor Brad O'Brien

The first time I read Proverbs 31, I chuckled and thought, how irrelevant this was to me as I was not married at the time as well as irrelevant to this day in age.  Surely, I am not going to get up before dark and make breakfast for anyone, nor will I ever need to gather wool and flax, not do I ever plan on working in a field.  But soon to find out that this exactly the type of person I want to become.  It is wisdom personified, she is the embodiment of the wisdom throughout the book of Proverbs. It gives the outline to what we should strive for- becoming virtuous women.  Being a women of mental, emotional, physical and spiritual strength.  Characteristics throughout Proverbs and concluding with Proverbs 31 include: hard working, wise investor, good use of time, planning ahead, caring for others, respect for your spouse, ability to share godly values with others, and wise counsel.  But her strength and dignity do not come from her acheivements they come from her reverance of God.  And so I believe that the most important characteristic is godly fear, including worship, service, trust and obedience.

So- how do we "acheive" all these things.  We don't.  We strive for them to be characteristics of us, we learn them everyday, and fail everyday.  But we do live in God's grace and mercy even when we fall short . We will fail... many many times.  But even during those times we come with repentant hearts and ask for His help to become this type of woman, which is what He calls beautiful.

Now as a challenge and what I have been learning, is that this is for everyone.  This is for the married woman who needs direction and enouragement, its for the single women to know that there is a difference between the beauty the world sees and the beauty that God sees.  For husbands, encourage your wife to become who God has created her to be.  And for the single men, this is the type of women you want to call your wife.  But remember: we are all sinful and imperfect and it is only through Jesus that we are able to even grasp any of these characteristics.

Day 30: Proverbs 30
Adam Moore, Associate Connections Pastor

A few years ago as I was approaching graduation from Appalachian State I remember walking through the Student Union and passing all the advisors working with students to vamp up their résumés.  They were waiting to help you figure out how to make your short work history and experience sound as if you are prepared for your dream job.  This is what we are trained to do, to let everyone know why we are qualified for what we desire to do.  However, we see a very different kind of resume in Proverbs 30.  The chapter begins by declaring:

“Surely I am too stupid to be a man. I have not the understanding of a man. I have not learned wisdom, nor have I knowledge of the Holy One.”

Now this is not exactly what we expect to hear from someone who is about to dispense his wisdom to us.  We are looking for his long history of experience to justify why we should give thought to his teachings.  But instead the author’s credentials are not found in his own wisdom but in Scripture.  He writes in verse 5, “Every word of God proves true; he is a shield to those who take refuge in him.”  So as we continue to study through Proverbs, consider where you are putting your confidence.  Is it in your own wisdom and experience or in the refuge of Scripture?

Day 29: Proverbs 29

Heather, Summit Administrative Assistant

Confession: by the time I get to Proverbs 29, I find myself skimming through the chapter (with the possible exception of verse 1 about the stubborn man, which - incredibly - I manage to miss completely).  I’ve heard all of this before in previous chapters, right?  Even the notes in my annotated Bible aren’t real notes!  All I get is, “See 15:33 and note; see also 18:12...” and so on.

There is one verse, however, that jumped out at me because I hadn’t seen it before.  Verse 25 says, “the fear of man lays a snare, but whoever trusts in the LORD is safe.”  14 times throughout the book of Proverbs we see the phrase, “the fear of the LORD” (Proverbs 1:7, 1:29, 2:5, 8:13, 9:10, 10:27, 14:26, 14:27, 15:16, 15:33, 16:6, 19:23, 22:4,  and 23:17).  Given Solomon’s love of making a point through contrasts, verse 25 shouldn’t actually be anything new to me.  The opposite of the fear of man is the fear of the Lord, and 14 times I have seen what it is to fear the Lord.  It is the beginning of knowledge, it is to hate evil, pride and arrogance, it is knowledge of the Holy One, it prolongs life, it is my strong confidence and refuge, it is a fountain of life, it is instruction in wisdom, it is what lets me rest satisfied.  

But there was something about seeing it spelled out: the fear of man lays a snare.  The fear of man traps me and keeps me from experiencing the joy of knowing God.  If the fear of the Lord is the fountain of life, then the fear of man leads to death.  Too often I find myself trapped, unable to move forward in my pursuit of wisdom and holiness because I am bound by my desire to please man, including myself.  Are you ensnared today, worried about what others will think of you (or what you think they should think of you)?  Or are you safe, confident and resting in Him?  

Day 29: Proverbs 29
Ryan Doherty, Summit Cole Mill Campus Pastor

Rodney Glen King (born April 2, 1965 in Sacramento, California) is a convicted criminal and drug user who, on March 3, 1991, was subjected to a beating by the LAPD after resisting arrest.  Four LAPD officers were later tried in a state court for the beating but were acquitted. The announcement of the acquittals sparked the 1992 Los Angeles Riots.  By the time the police, the US Army, the Marines and the National Guard restored order, the casualties included 53 deaths, 2,383 injuries, more than 7,000 fires, damages to 3,100 businesses, and nearly $1 billion in financial losses. Smaller riots occurred in other cities such as Las Vegas and Atlanta.

My proverb is due on August 8. A little early.

On May 1, 1992, the third day of the L.A riots, King appeared in public before television news cameras to appeal for calm. He said, “People, I just want to say, you know, can we all get along? Can we get along? Can we stop making it, making it horrible for the older people and the kids?...It’s just not right. It’s not right. It’s not, it’s not going to change anything. We’ll, we’ll get our justice....Please, we can get along here. We all can get along. I mean, we’re all stuck here for a while. Let’s try to work it out. Let’s try to beat it. Let’s try to beat it. Let’s try to work it out.”

As we take a look at Proverbs 28 today, we see that in order to live in a just society-a place where we “can all get along” there must be gospel transformation. Our society has become ugly, dark and corrupt. We read in Proverbs about the wicked being praised for not paying attention to the law and the righteous are being chastised for keeping it. Rulers are oppressing their people, the rich are hoarding their money and the poor are stealing from each other. In the midst of this calamity we are encouraged to yet again fear the Lord and not to harden our hearts.  As members of society, read the rest of Proverbs 28 and see what happens to those who walk faithfully and practice integrity. 

Remember, true societal transformation can only take place when its members experience a new life because of Jesus Christ (2 Corinthians 5:17). Be encouraged today that YOU can make a difference in this world as we patiently wait for all things to become new (Revelation 21:5) and we can all finally just get along.

Day 26: Proverbs 26
Tim Jackson, Financial Administrator

As I read through Proverbs 26 several times, it occurred to me I needed to carry around a cheat sheet to remember all of these comparisons and analogies.  Another title for this proverb might be “How to recognize the fool, the slacker, and the slanderer in twenty-five (not so) easy to remember ways”

Here are a few of my favorites from the text: correct the fool, don’t affirm him (v.4,5), don’t let the fool represent you (sort of makes you a fool)(v.6,8,10), remember: the ignorant are ignorant of their ignorance so what does that say about the one who thinks he is wise (v.12)?  If its harder to detach you from your bed than it is a door from its hinges, you might be a slacker(v.14).  If you tell your neighbor you were just joking when he catches you staring at his wife, you might be a deceiver(v.19).  If you find yourself stirring up arguments and creating strife in circumstances that don’t even concern you, you might be a slanderer(v.17,21,22).  

I’m sure Solomon intended to share his wisdom with us concerning how to recognize certain behaviors in others that we should steer clear of.  These behaviors, specifically foolishness, laziness, and deceitfulness, can be directly associated with sinfulness.  So, yes, do not rely on those who exhibit these traits.  But monitor yourself as well, so that none of these could be seen in you.

Day 25: Proverbs 25
Shannon Simoneau, West Club Campus Administrative Assistant

When I was growing up, the discipline for saying bad words in our family was getting your mouth washed out with soap. It was the most horrible taste - soap was made to clean, not to be eaten. I can still taste the soap as I think about it. Getting my mouth washed out with soap taught me to watch my words but not the attitude behind the words or the consequences of those words in others’ lives.

As common in the proverbs, Proverbs 25 uses contrasts to make a point, in this case about our speech. There is the person who rebukes another openly and the person who calls him aside. There is the person who is a trustworthy messenger and one who gives false testimony. There is the person who exalts themselves, betrays confidence, speaks slyly, and is quarrelsome. There is the person who speaks aptly, with gently words, delivers good news, and is not a gossip.

As I read through this chapter I am challenged to think about these differences and where my language and attitude fall. Verse 2 gives us the difference, “the glory of God” or “the glory of kings.” As you read through Proverbs 25 today, think about the words that come out of your mouth and the motive behind them. Ask yourself, am I seeking to honor God or myself?

Beginning in September we have a Women's Morning Bible Study gathering weekly at our Brier Creek Campus. This is open to all women, childcare is available, and registration is encouraged. Details are below:

• Wednesdays 9:30am – 11:30am
• September 9th – November 18th 2009
• Kids Life Worship Area, Brier Creek Campus
• Registration fee $20 per semester
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Day 23: Proverbs 23
Jason Douglas, Production & Programming Pastor

My wife, Leslie, is having a baby in 7 weeks.  Did you hear that?  7 weeks!  I am both completely and totally excited and scared to death-- all at the same time!  I am constantly thinking about what’s to come and know that God is going to completely rock our world with the arrival of this little guy.  As I read Proverbs 23, the verses talking about fathers and sons particularly stand out to me.

Proverbs 23:24 says, “The father of a righteous man has great joy; he who has a wise son delights in him.”  Though I want my little guy to be happy and healthy and cute and smart (I could go on and on), this passage tells me that what will bring true joy to me as a dad will be to watch him grow in wisdom—to grow in the fear and the knowledge of his Heavenly Father.

 I should not only think of these verses from the perspective of a dad-to-be, but also from the perspective of a son.  I am the son of my Heavenly Father, so how is it that I please Him and bring Him great joy?  Proverbs 23:15 says, “ My son, if your heart is wise, then my heart will be glad.” By having a heart that is wise, I will bring gladness and joy and honor to God.  But how do I have a heart that is wise?  How do you? By fearing God and recognizing His importance and supreme value in our lives.  By reflecting on the magnitude of forgiveness and grace that we have freely received in Christ (Psalm 130:3-4).

 Let’s consider today how we can bring God joy by having hearts that are wise.

Day 22: Proverbs 22
Chris Baker, Director of Media

I have a short attention span. Really short. Even if I'm reading or watching something really compelling, it doesn't take much to make my thoughts start to wander. That's one of the reasons I love Proverbs. Even if I lose focus for a couple of seconds while I'm reading, the next verse is a whole new lesson in itself! No big deal, right? But Proverbs is also full of these periodical little reminders that I shouldn't be paying attention only when it's convenient for me.

Take 22:17-22 for example. These words really jump out at me; "incline your ear, and hear the words of the wise and apply your heart to my knowledge". This is a reminder to me that these passages are not just fun little sayings so I can allow my mind to wander if I get bored. I am to "apply my heart" to this knowledge. It's like the author is saying, "These are the inspired words of God. Pay attention!" They are written so we can know "what is right and true" (v.21). This is the wisdom God has given us so we know how to live a godly life.

So when I find my A.D.D. self not taking my reading of Proverbs seriously, I am thankful for these reminders of the importance of what I am reading. As you read through Proverbs during this series, try to avoid the temptation to pick out the Proverbs you like and zone out for the rest. And since we're reading through twice, the second time around you can take time to go back and catch the stuff you missed (or in my case, avoided) on the first reading.

Day 21: Proverbs 21
Cynthia Mann, Director of Counseling

My mom tells this story of me as a little girl growing up in Mexico, shaking my finger at her and saying, “ni modo, Mami, ni modo” (translation: “tough, Mommy, tough”).  Apparently, I did it pretty often…usually when telling my mom she had no choice but to give in to my plan for whatever was going on (thankfully I had a pretty wise mom who knew how to control my dictator tendencies…).  Who would have known that this would become a lifelong habit?  My life…my way…In fact, my choice to follow the Lord had nothing to do with understanding the truth of the gospel, and everything to do with whether or not I could finally accede that God knew better and had a better plan for my life.

I like to think of the moment I accepted Christ not just as a moment of salvation, but as the moment I waved the flag of surrender in the battle for my life.  Proverbs 21 overflows with warnings about the life I was choosing (and sometimes still choose).  Thoughts like “I want, I need, I can, I will, I know better” are contrasted with wisdom and upright character.  Today, as a counselor, I make a daily choice about who’s thoughts are better…mine, or God’s?  Verse 30 stands as a direct warning to me…no wisdom, no understanding, no counsel can compare to God’s.  There are so many times when the world tells us it is better, wiser, more worthy to act in a way that directly contradicts what we know God wants for our lives.  We are told to indulge ourselves, to lie for gain, to seek power, money, and pride.  It comes down to who we believe both in thought and in function…who are you believing today?

Day 20: Proverbs 20
Curtis Alan, Church Planting Pastor

Trust… I can’t read Proverbs without constantly being forced to acknowledge of our need to trust the Lord (and not lean on our own knowledge, resources, and abilities 3:4).

That theme is clear again in Proverbs 20. However, at the same time, we must be good and faithful stewards of what the Lord does provide us as we seek and follow His will for our lives. The evil one can distract us from the task and blessings that the Lord has already given us through strong drink (20:1), needless quarrels and arguments (20:3), gossip (20:19), and deceit (20:17). These are all huge  enemies to a lifestyle of trust. At the same time, I think one of the greatest obstacles we must avoid is laziness – especially in the winters of life (20:4).  As we live in obedience to God’s will and trust Him to guide our path, we must align our efforts with our prayers.

The story is told of the two farmers in the midst of a drought took two very different approaches. One was still and inactive and prayed fervently for rain. The other set about plowing his field and praying fervently as he worked – working in trust rather than just waiting in trust. When the rains finally came, it was the farmer that had set about the work in the field that the Lord had already given him that reaped the harvest.

As you meditate on Proverbs 20 today, ask yourself what fields in your own life are being neglected. Are your prayers for guidance lived out in trust by your actions, demeanor, and attitude?

Day 19: Proverbs 19
Trevor Atwood, Summit College Pastor

My wife loves thinking ahead.  Where my personality is all about “rejoicing in the day the lord has made”, my wife likes to rejoice in the 5-year plan the Lord has made.  She is always thinking ahead.  Without her forethought, every evening we would be scrounging for dinner, feeding our kids “Beanie-Weanie” (not that there is anything wrong with that!). 

But she doesn’t just think ahead about meals.  She thinks ahead and dreams about what cool things God is planning in our lives and how we can be ready to respond in obedience when he calls.  It happened this way with adoption for us.  God gave her the vision to adopt, and she ran with it.  Researching, planning ahead and even giving me the right nudges to get me ready for one of the greatest things he has done in our marriage, making us parents to two boys.

In verse 13-14 of Proverbs 19, I am reminded of what a gift it is to have a “prudent wife”  someone who cares about and thinks about our life together and how God is calling us forward.  In verse 13, Solomon contrasts the prudent wife with the quarreling wife.  The quarrelling represents a wife who has her eyes only on her circumstance and complains about it.  The “dripping” is not just annoying, over time the selfish nagging produces structural damage in the foundation of marriage that can collapse.  But in 14, we are told to recognize that the prudent wife is a gift from the Lord. 

Have you found God’s grace in your spouse? 

Can you look at yourself and find a self-centered quarrelsome spirit or one of faith in God to do more than you can ask for or imagine in your marriage?

Thank God for and pray for your spouse today.

Day 18: Proverbs 18
Jeremy Pollard, Summit Kids Pastor

Have you ever wished you could take back something you said?  Chances are, in the 16,000 words you’ll say today, there will probably be some you could have left out.  Proverbs 18 shows the difference between the words of the wise and the foolish.

A foolish person’s conversation is described by words such as opinionated, prideful, and impulsive.  On the other hand, a wise person’s words are cautious, discerning, and knowledgeable.  Others can tell a lot about our hearts by the words we speak.

A guy by the name of Abraham Lincoln summed it up this way, “Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt.”  What impression will your words leave today?

Day 17: Proverbs 17
Jen Thompson, Wife of Executive Pastor David Thompson & Volunteer in Summit Kids Ministry.

Early in my marriage (although not quite early enough), someone gave me the wise advice to let go of my need to always be right.  I’m a firstborn, recovering type A personality and I love for things to go my way.  I especially like it when I’m right.  In our marriage, for some reason, I’m not always right.  I know, big surprise there!  It feels good to hear myself (occasionally) say, “You’re right” or to remain silent when I think I know better.

I love how Proverbs 17 gives some very practical advice on how to handle conflict.  Verse 1 tells us God desires for our homes to be filled with peace, something I want for my home.  I desire that our home be a haven for our family and for anyone who enters– a place that is safe and pleasant. Verse 9 is a reminder to “cover over an offense” instead of repeating it and dwelling on it.  My favorite and most convicting verse is verse 19.  Our pride ultimately causes our destruction.  My need to be right causes me to build up the “high gate” Solomon talks about.

If loving a quarrel is to love sin, then avoiding a quarrel leads to righteousness.  That’s what I want.  Think today of how you can cover over an offense and make peace in your relationships.

Day 16: Proverbs 16
Charlie Dunn, Brier Creek PM Campus Pastor

For better or worse God created me as a dreamer and a planner. I am “Type-A” and as ambitious as a mosquito in a nudist colony. So when I come to passages like Proverbs 16:1, which says “the plans of the heart belong to man,” everything in me says, “Amen!” After all, I have plans and purposes, desires and dreams for my life.

What I often miss however is the point of passages like Proverbs 16, which goes on to say in verses 1-2, “but the answer of the tongue is from the Lord…and the Lord weighs the spirit.” In other words, it’s not that my planning and ambition is bad, it’s just that it’s flawed and therefore has to be subject to God who is perfect and sovereign. Verses 1 and 2 could just as easily read, “Charlie plans in his heart, but the Lord controls, and Charlie’s ways seem good to him, but the Lord knows whether or not he is operating out of a pure spirit.”

The result is that I am left with a daily decision of whether or not I will submit to God’s sovereign direction and control of my life, or sinfully attempt to live for myself… either overtly, or in the simple things like how I spend my money, time, or treat my wife and neighbors.

What is so wonderful is to know that God has not left me to make these continual decisions without first, perfectly assuring me of His love and faithfulness. As verse 6 says, “By steadfast love and faithfulness iniquity is atoned for.” In other words, if God was willing to send his own son to die on a cross for me when I had openly rejected Him, then I can be assured that any decision He calls me to is for my benefit. Or as Jeremiah 29:11 says, for “my welfare and not for evil.”

Day 15: Proverbs 15
Brad Obrien, West Club Campus Pastor

I can remember the day that I found out that I am an introvert. It was an epiphany for me and the discovery enabled me to learn a lot about myself. (You can insert… “deal with some internal issues” in the place of “learn a lot about myself”) I began to make sense to myself. When given the choice I would rather be alone than in the midst of a group of people. (Don’t judge me… this is the way God made me!) But this discovery created a tension… 1) I am a pastor and a good deal of that occupation is built on being around people and many times in big groups and 2) the Bible calls us to live out our faith in community.

I like Proverbs 15 because it is a clear reminder that we are to live our lives integrated with others in our faith community. Although our personalities may cause us to desire seclusion and privacy, as followers of Christ we are called to live our lives within our community of faith. There are several instances where the beauty of this type of communal living is seen in Proverbs 15. We are told that we are prudent if we heed reproof (v5), but how are we going to heed godly criticism unless we are living in the midst of others pursuing righteousness? Also, we are told that without counsel our plans will fail (v22). Who are the people in your life that you can seek counsel from? Not just counsel on your pursuit of righteousness, but counsel on how to live wisely. Finally, we are told that if we ignore instruction we despise ourselves, but if we listen to reproof we gain intelligence (v32). Our ability to listen to a rebuke from a godly person is contingent on our openness to living in biblical community. 

If I am honest with you, I must admit that I don’t like being rebuked. I don’t like being criticized. I don’t enjoy having to seek counsel before I make a decision when I know what I want to do! But the Bible tells me that by listening to reproofs and seeking counsel I will live a skillful life. Are there people in your life that you allow to speak into your life and rebuke you when they see that you aren’t pursuing righteousness?  Or are you trying to do this “following Christ” thing all by yourself? If you are around the Summit and don’t have these types of relationships there are several opportunities to change that, but it requires you taking the initiative. Talk to your campus pastor and find out about small groups or check out our new web site to find out how to begin the process of living in biblical community.

Day 12: Proverbs 12
Jason Gaston, Student Pastor

Oh man did I ever hate to be disciplined as a kid. It seemed like every day some new form of capital punishment was being introduced in my house by my mom and dad. I never quite seemed to get it though. I guess you could say I was “stupid.” Now for some of you reading that line, you either just gasped for air and couldn’t believe I just used the word stupid in a devotional, or you immediately quoted Forrest Gump in your head “Stupid is as stupid does.”

“Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge, but he who hates correction is stupid.” (Proverbs 12:1)

What exactly does stupid do? Simple. He despises correction and discipline in his life. Don’t be stupid. Pursue wisdom, for she is a diamond in the rough, She calls out to you, yearning for you to pursue her and not turn a deaf ear. 

As you read Proverbs 12 today, ponder and ask yourself the following questions:

How am I pursuing wisdom?

Do I have people in my life who can correct and lend advice when I am in the wrong? (If the answer is NO, get plugged in a small group.)

Day 11: Proverbs 11
Bonnie Shrum, Office Manager

Righteous.  That’s one of those words we hear in church all the time, but what does it mean?  Webster defines righteous as free from guilt or sin, acting in accordance with divine or moral law.  Need a more practical definition?  Then head to Proverbs 11 which is filled with thoughts and direction on how we become righteous men and women.

Here’s a few of the characteristics of the righteous given in that chapter: blameless, upright, humble, trustworthy, kindhearted, discreet, generous, not trusting in riches.  Wow, that’s quite a list!  I can strive toward those things, but I can never be that person on my own, it’s not even possible.  Almost makes me want to not even try!   And then I remember the promise of God – I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me, for God sees me as righteous and redeemed through the blood of His only Son.  As Paul said, if righteousness could be gained through the law, Christ died for nothing.  And as J.D. often reminds us, it’s not what I DO, it’s what Christ has already DONE.

So as you read Proverbs 11, look for the many characteristics of righteousness that are yours as you trust in Christ.  Strive for the righteousness that is gained from a life devoted to and centered in the Good News of the gospel of Jesus Christ.

Day 10: Proverbs 10
Carl Scott, Summit Elder

As in the previous chapters in Proverbs, Chapter 10 continues to speak about ‘wisdom, righteousness and fear of the Lord’.   However,  in addition to these points, I was struck most by the theme of the power of our words and how they can be a blessing or a curse. See verses 10-13, especially verses 10-11.  How can we be a “fountain of life” with our words to others?  Verse 21 speaks of our lips nourishing and ‘fools’ dying for a lack of judgment. A fool in the Hebrew Scriptures refers to someone who has no regard for God in their life.

We live in a society that loves to hear the story – the ‘juicy details’.  There is a part of us that loves gossip.  This is a dark side of us.  Even when something is true about someone, it can still be gossip and not something that is nourishing someone.  Sometimes, one can even mask ‘concern or may I pray for you’ as really just wanting to gossip. 

This week, let’s challenge ourselves to be more aware of the words we chose to speak and their impact on others.  Our words are very powerful.  See Ephesians 4 and the book of James.  Keep a journal or list of how often you bless people with your words or how often you speak badly about someone.  This week, I suggest we intentionally seek out someone we can bless with our words each day.  Further, I believe it will help to record how we feel when we bless someone with our words or hurt someone with our words.

Day 9: Proverbs 9
Eric Chetwood, Summit Elder

A friend of mine going through our college ministry’s Summer Institute said, “you know, the more I learn about God’s truth, the more I realize how little I know on my own.”  He couldn’t have given me a better ally-oop to introduce Proverbs 9 to you.

The key thought in this chapter is a comparison of two feasts.  The only way to be invited to Wisdom’s feast is to first acknowledge that you don’t deserve to be invited (v. 4).  You must first recognize how little you know on your own.  Then, you’re invited to come inside and enjoy all the festivities that are provided for you by the hostess (v.5), but take note that you brought nothing to the table (v.10-11) and you are there by grace, and grace alone. 

The second party is a lot flashier; a lot more glamorous (v. 13).  It offers the same promises of contentment as the first party, but through corrupt means (v.16-17).  Instead of leading to a fulfilling life, it’s luster fades quickly and leads to death (v.18).  Notice that Wisdom calls us to repentance (v.6) and Folly calls us to the path of least resistance.

Take some time today and marinate on the parallels between this chapter and the gospel of Jesus Christ.  Jesus came for the sick and not those who delusively think they are healthy (Matt. 9:12).  All that He requires in order for us to enjoy the ultimate Feast is to admit our brokenness and surrender to His love and Lordship.  Out of that surrender flows the abundant life He promised us (John 10:10).  That’s reason enough to be thankful today!

Day 8: Proverbs 8
Michael Jongkind, Summit Elder

The overarching theme in Proverbs so far has been a reverence for God (fear of the Lord). This is a foundation for wisdom. The fear of the Lord is a “state of mind” where our attitudes, will, feelings, deeds, and goals are exchanged for the Lord’s. 

In proverbs 8 the author uses language in the first few verses to describe wisdom as something very open and very near calling out to us.  This is in contrast to the secrecy and intrigue of the adulterer described in Proverbs 7.  When faced with a choice to choose God’s way or our own way what will we choose?  It’s not that wisdom is so far off that it is unavailable to us. Proverbs 8 says wisdom calls and takes her stand & James 1:5 says that is available by request.  We can listen or ask.  Wisdom is ready and willing.

This contrast between the right way, which for the most part is obvious and our own way, which tends to be secretive consistently shows up.  Do we cheat, steal, or give into our desires and then hide the truth?
I used to read proverbs thinking that if I apply the principles it will make me successful. And when I look at successful people it’s not too hard to identify a proverb that supports their achievements.  But how do I account for this gap in what I want and what God wants.  And how can I change so that I want the same things God wants? 

My hope lies in the gospel. The more revelation of the gospel the more I want God’s way and hate the evil way.  Let us ask God for more revelation as individuals and as a church.

Day 7: Proverbs 7
Rick Langston, Senior Associate Pastor & Multi-site Pastor

Verse two says, “keep my teaching as the apple of your eye.” The “apple of your eye” is an old-fashioned way of referring to something that you look at with great love and affection. It is the pinpoint focus of your devotion. Wisdom says make the teachings of God’s Word the object of this devotion in your life.

Complacency in life is a killer. It’s a killer of time, talent, resources, relationships. Looking away from the road to send a text message (dumb) may cost you your life. In as real a sense, looking away from God’s Word…allowing your focus to drift from His commands, precepts, advice or principles can result in a deadly wreck in our lives spiritually, relationally and even physically.

This proverb says that sin and temptation is lurking at every corner of our lives. And it looks good. It’s appealing. It’s enticing. It’s fun. It’s deadly. What may seem at first to be a harmless diversion can wreck hearts, marriages, careers and lives. Do I sound overly dramatic? Then read Proverbs 7 and ask yourself if its wisdom or foolishness to take lightly what God says. Guard your heart. Guard your eyes and what they see. First and foremost, fill up your eyes and your hearts with the beauty and wisdom of God’s Word.

Jonathan Welch
Summit Worship Associate

Day 5: Proverbs 5
David Thompson, Executive Pastor

Proverbs 5 is a man-to-man appeal concerning matters of sexual morality.  The immoral woman is introduced in verses 3-6 as alluring, but deadly.  An exhortation to stay far from such promiscuous women follows in verses 7-14.  And in verses 15-20 the passage makes it clear that sexual pleasure is good but that it must be confined to marriage.

The key instruction of this chapter comes in verse 21 when it says, “For a man’s ways are before the eyes of the Lord.”   Our motivation for fleeing from sexual sin and living a life of integrity is in knowing that God is always watching us.  God is not watching us so He can catch us doing something wrong, God’s eyes are on us because He loves us and He does not want us to be led astray. God watches us in the same way that I watch my kids.  I watch my kids because I love them and want what is best for them.  When my kids were learning how to ride their bikes without training wheels, I was running alongside them and cheering them on as the handle bar was wobbling back and forth and they were learning how to stay on the right path.

In the Gospel, God shows me that His intentions for me are blessing not cursing, hope not despair, resurrection not death. When I stop and realize that God's intentions for me, my family, and my ministry are good beyond even my wildest imaginations I get fired up to face the day.

Day 4: Proverbs 4
Andrew Hopper, Young Pros Pastor

Verses 18 and 19 in Proverbs 4 really set up the heart of the chapter in this; there are two ways. There are two paths and every person that walks the earth will take one of them.

First is the path of righteousness and it is compared to a light. Actually it is compared to the light of dawn that is steadily increasing until fully realized. In this way of wisdom a person’s morality is fixed rightly because they can see! Their way is not haphazard nor is it filled with stumbling. God’s light illuminates their path (Psalm 119:105). However, there is another way that is for the wicked. Stumbling and ignorance characterizes their life because of the lack of light. Without light the wicked stumble about in darkness.

God’s instruction to us is illuminating. It shows us the correct path for a blessed life. This is why God’s instruction in wisdom is considered such a treasure. Because with it there is a sense of sight that is absent in the darkness.

Day 3: Proverbs 3
J.D. Greear, Lead Pastor

In Proverbs 3, Solomon is giving his son the foundational principles for wisdom. First, we must approach wisdom's teaching with humility, understanding that the creator knows best how to live in harmony with creation (3:7; 19-22). Our humility will be shown in how much we seek God's words.

Second, we must fear God (3:7)... not in the sense that we are "afraid" of Him, but in that we recognize how valuable He is to our lives and so do nothing that would jeopardize our relationship to Him. All of us "fear" something... something we feel like we must have to make life work.

Finally, we must trust God. Completely. We show we trust Him when we obey Him in all things (3:6), receive His discipline in our lives (3:11-12), as from a loving Father, and when we honor Him FIRST with all our possessions (3:9-10).

What about you? Are you seeking God's word daily, trying to discern what He says about all your paths? Do you seek Him like the treasure He is? Do you trust God enough to yield entirely to Him, and trust what He is doing in your life? Are you honoring God FIRST with your money,
possessions, and talents?

Walking with God in absolute trust and a sense of His awesomeness is the only way really to know our great God. God is not simply Someone to add as an assistant to our lives. Think of it like this: Astronomers have said that if the distance between heaven and earth were the thickness of one piece of paper, then the distance between earth and the closest star would be a stack of paper 70 feet high, and the distance across our galaxy would be a stack of paper 310 miles high. And our galaxy is only like a speck of dust in the immensity of the Universe! Our God created all this by the word of His power... as Elisabeth Elliot said, "Is this really the kind of God you ask into your life as an assistant?" This is a God to value, trust and submit our whole lives to!

Solomon says that the rewards from living this way are staggering. Wisdom, Solomon says, is a tree of life (3:18).  The "tree of life" is an image in Scripture that goes back to the Garden of Eden... the tree of life is not just vegetation with magical fruit, but a symbol of our unity with God. Real wisdom unites you to God, which is life's greatest possession! In Him you have something that gives more stability than family, more pleasantness than good health, and more security than money. He is your tree of life.

Day 2: Proverbs 2
Craig Eggleton, Small Groups Associate

The theme of “the fear of the Lord” continues into Proverbs 2.  Leading up to verse 5, the author explains “the fear of the Lord” in terms of viewing the commands of God as a treasure of great value.  Here, the reader soon discovers that fearing the Lord is summed up by a revelation of how valuable God is.  God is infinitely valuable!  And finding Him is worth forsaking all other “treasures” in hopes of obtaining this True treasure.

So the idea behind “fearing God” is the understanding: He is so valuable that we “fear” the thought of disobeying Him.  The one who obtains this knowledge of God’s infinite value desires to walk in constant communion with Him through continual obedience.  Obedience to God also results in His protection from evil.  This is why we delight in obeying Him as a loving Father. Read Proverbs 2

While we will be posting those interactions daily here on the blog, you should check out our "Still Standing" page for a complete look at how to make the most of your time in proverbs this summer.

Pastor J.D.

Brad O'Brien
Community Outreach Pastor

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